What is self-help?

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What is self-help? What does it really mean?


When we think about “self-help” we have to see its issues.


Self-help, just like us, has limitations.

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Have you heard the saying ” God only helps those that help themselves?”


The main issue with this is that the word of God doesn’t support it.
It’s one of those sayings that people use when they are essentially trying to motivate themselves to be strong.


I get it.


But we have limits.


Scripture says that “His [God’s strength] is perfected in our weakness.”


The Apostle Paul pleads with God to remove a certain pain from his life (that he was unable and limited from removing on his own). 👇🏽


👉🏽 “But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is perfected in weakness.”
(Paul’s response)


👉🏽 “Therefore, I will most gladly boast all the more about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may reside in me.”2Co 12:9

That sounds really vulnerable and Helpless in my opinion💁🏽‍♀️.


It sounds like God has a strength that we don’t.

It sounds like we need Him since our abilities to help ourselves and even others is finite.


Self-help and assistance from others are very different than salvation “ultimate Help.”


💥 But Thank God we can go to Him because of Jesus for His infinite help.


I would love to hear your thoughts and perspective on self-help.

On the latest episode [24] of The Style And Stewardship Podcast, we are discussing the topic of self-help.


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Scriptures Referenced

Scriptures mentioned: sourced from biblegateway.com

Colossians 3:23

2Timothy 2:15

John 14:6

Proverbs 8:1

Hebrews 10:25

James 4:1

James 1:23-24

Mark 2:1-12

Proverbs 3:5-6

Romans 3:23

2Timothy 4:2-4 

Matthew 5:17 *Jesus did not come to abolish the Law

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Show Notes In this episode, Cher shares a powerful message about stewardship, burden, and the lies that can tempt us to despise the very responsibilities God has given us. Drawing from The Pilgrim’s Progress, Scripture, and everyday life, she encourages listeners to reject the culture’s pressure to chase ease, aesthetics, and comparison—and instead to remain faithful in the unique calling and season God has placed them in.   Key Takeaways The enemy often tries to make good things feel like burdens. God-given responsibilities are not accidents; they are assignments. Comparison can tempt us to despise our own gifts and calling. Stewarding what God has placed in front of us brings freedom and purpose. Faithfulness in ordinary responsibilities glorifies God. Topics Covered The burden of responsibility in a fallen world Spiritual discernment in a culture that values performance and image Comparing gifts, talents, and callings Stewardship in family life, motherhood, and daily work Resisting the lie that “easy” is always better Choosing faithfulness over cultural pressure Notable Message: You are not meant to be like everyone else. The difference in your life may be exactly what points others to Jesus.   Scripture References and Themes Matthew 11:28–30 :  the burden and rest found in Christ James 1:13–15 : desire, temptation, and sin James 1:5 : asking God for wisdom 1 Corinthians 10:31 : doing all things for the glory of God The Pilgrim’s Progress : the temptation to leave the path for an easier way Resources/Affiliate: The Pilgrim’s Progress Book In Modern English  The Pilgrim’s Progress free movie on YouTube  Quote Highlights “The real burden is being something that you’re not.” “Wherever God has placed you right now is where He has you.” “Do what God has called you to do.” “The enemy is a liar and the father of lies.” Listener Action Step: Take a moment today to identify one responsibility you’ve been tempted to resent. Ask God to help you see it as a gift, not a burden, and to steward it with faithfulness.    Connect with me: styleandstewardship.com  YouTube Channel  Email: hello{at}styleandstewardship[dot]com
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